February 28, 2008

Book Recommendation: Beijing Confidential

In general, I don't post about the books I read because I tend to like my books like my TV: entertaining and fluffy. But the book I just plowed through in 3 days most certainly deserves a recommendation.

Janwong here is the description from Amazon:

Jan Wong has returned to Beijing. Her quest: to find someone she encountered briefly in 1973, and whose life she was certain she had ruined forever.

In the early 70s, Jan Wong traveled from Canada to become one of only two Westerners permitted to study at Beijing University. One day a young stranger, Yin Luoyi, asked for help in getting to the United States. Wong, then a starry-eyed Maoist, immediately reported Yin to the authorities. Thirty-three years on, and more than a decade after the publication of her bestselling Red China Blues, Jan Wong revisits the Chinese capital to begin her search for the person who has haunted her conscience. She wants to apologize, to somehow make amends. At the very least, she wants to discover whether Yin survived.


As Jan Wong hunts through the city, she finds herself traveling back through the decades, back to her experiences in the Cultural Revolution, to places that were once of huge importance to her. She has changed, of course, but not as much as Beijing. One of the world’s most ancient cities is now one of its most modern. The neon signs no longer say “Long Live Chairman Mao” but instead tout Mary Kay cosmetics and Kentucky Fried Chicken. Places she once knew have vanished, bulldozed into oblivion and replaced by avant-garde architecture, trendy bars, and sleek condos. The people she once knew have changed, too, for better or for worse. Memories are everywhere. By searching out old friends and acquaintances, Jan Wong uncovers tantalizing clues about the woman she wronged. She realizes her deepest fears and regrets were justified. But Yin herself remains elusive–until the day she phones Jan Wong.

Now let me tell you why I think this is a MUST read.....  the story itself is fascinating. At first, I couldn't reconcile the fact that Jan Wong, a respected journalist here in Canada, had at one time been a Maoist... It was very interesting to learn how people got swept up in the initial promises of Mao and willingly participated. But the part that sucked me in and kept me up late at night, reading "just one more chapter" was her comparative descriptions of China in the different times she lived there.

On a very tiny scale, I know what she is talking about. I went twice, in 2004 and 2007, staying on the same block. And in that time, Beijing had changed so much that even I had a hard time finding my way around on the one street.

I was also particularly interested in the constant real estate discussions with the people she met: her old Maoist friends are all now buzy buying and selling properties, moving 5 times in 7 years, changing their cell phone numbers so often that it makes it impossible to stay in touch with acquaintances....

Many of my readers have adopted or are in the process of adopting from China. Do yourself a favor, read this book. It's got nothing to do with adoption, but in my opinion, it will go a long way in helping  understand modern-China and maybe explaining it to your/my children.

February 10, 2007

home sweet home

we made it. The girls slept a lot, no one cried on the plane (though Dumpling did pull some A-1 quality tantrums at the airports), but Mommy and Daddy got about 3 hours of sleep combined. So down is up and night is day and I don't know how on earth we will get through this jet lag. Last time, we spent the days outside in the sun, but it was May, not February and -14 Celcius!!!

We got groceries this morning, the girls are down for a nap now and we are hoping to wake them up to play a bit this afternoon so that this doesn't end up being their night-sleep. Tomorrow's objective is to buy Sprout some clothes, because I have no winter clothes left from Dumpling that really fit her. WE tried desperatly this morning to fit her in Dumpling's first winter clothes, but everythign is 12-18 and Sprout is more 24-36, so all the snaps came undone between the legs, or the leggings were all capris, again, not really good when it's freezing outisde.

I'll post again soon, first put away groceries, then nap....

February 07, 2007

KLB Powers, ACTIVATE!

Yesterday was the Forbidden city (not so nice in winter), Tien*nm*n Square (our guide still isn't convinced it wasn't media manipulation from the West!!!!) and then, full-on, all-afternoon, no baby shopping spree. I apologize to anone arriving in Beijing looking for girl's shoes in my daughter's sizes or baby clothes in the 18-24 months range, there are none left. I got them all.  13 pairs of shoes (I know, still a far cry from the 40 I promised, but I'v still got today), lots and lots and lots of tops and sweaters, a few 2 piece winter ensembles to dress the Beach Ball (I know she will always be Sprout to you, but to us, she is now lovingly referred to as the Beach Ball)

Speaking of Sprout, she is by and large a very happy little (big) girl. The last 3 nights have been tough. She wakes up in a stupor and only wants Daddy, who then has to spend anywhere from 2 to 4 hours getting her back to bed.  He's been a champ, taking her to the conference center on the second floor at 3 am so that Dumpling and I can still sleep. I'm sre he's getting tired of it, and I would love to do it, but she will not have me, no siree. I am day-time parent, food-parent, diaper-parent, but absolutely-not-in-the-night-parent, by her choice, not mine!

A completely unrelated observation about China: why is it that if they can have a 4 story tv screen attached to the building across the street, and they sell Pampers and Huggies at the store, why is it that feminin hygene products are still 1970's technology and comfot level????? Maybe it's just the one store I went to, or I coulnd't figure out the packaging, but man, they need to figure this out!

Today we visit the Hutongs with a bike (you know the one, you sit and they pull you) and then go to the chinese circus tonight. Tomorrow, half a day of packing and more shopping and we go home in the late afternoon. I will attempt one more post before I leave, bt if I have to pick between shopping and you guys, you'll have to wait til I'm home for the next post!

February 05, 2007

That is one BIG baby!

First of all, let me thank you for your concern. SickDad is on the mend and rejoined the group at the hotel last night. He won't be partying up a storm anytime soon, but he's with us, will join us on the bus outings and at least is feeling well enough to enjoy his daughter. As for which airline, it's no secret: this was an in-China flight on the Chinese airline.

Yesterday was clinic and embassy day, followed by an afternoon of powere shopping for Wilma and I. The cute independant baby store behind the Poly Plaza hotel, which I discovered on my last day in Beijing 3 years ago, is currently empty of anythign in our 4 daughter's sizes. Sorry for the others, but we had to get everything, there was no way around it. We also went back to the shoe stall in the market from 3 years ago. Obviously, they didn't remember us. But we layed out the story for them: we had come 3 years ago, we will buy a LOT over the next week, this is just our first time, for essantials for the 2 babies. There will be no two hours of negotiations, we are not kidding. 6 pairs of leather shoes for 350 yuans. yeah us! And the sales lady can't wait til we bring the big girls today!

Most overheard comment at the clinic yesterday: that is one BIG baby. The nurses, the staff, Dr. Pauline, they were all amazed at the size of our Sprout.  she topped 11 kilos. The next biggest baby was an almost 2 y.o. boy at 10.3 Kg. Dr. Pauline told us she was certainly not malnourished at any point! (that was not a newsflash!) Also, she is the only one who didn't have either pneumonia, airway infection or a cold. I guess the fat keeps away the germs!!!!

Sprout is hilarious. But she has got a mean streak, and can take Dumplign down in one tackle. Also, she can dunk Dumpling's head in the tub, even with only 2 inches of water and both parents sitting on the edge supervising. We will have our hands full!

February 03, 2007

we interrupt this medical emergency to serve you lunch

Remember how I was complaining that Hefei was boring... yeah, well, I'm sorry I ever said anything.... As we were leaving the hotel Friday morning, one of the Dads in our travel group, whom I will refer to as SickDad, started feeling queezy. Gravol was offered, but he didn't want it. One diesel bus ride and an hour wait at an overheated airport later, he really wasn't feeling good, but didn't complain.  Plane takes off, seat belt signs turn off 15 minutes later and SickWife is asking anyone if their Gravol happens to be nearby. Mortimer's Dad stands up to retrieve it from the overhead bin, only to watch SickDad puke his guts out. Then, he passed out. Then he turned first green, they grey, then sort of..... I don't know, convulse or shake, I'm not sure.

We have the BEST travel group ever. My mom grabbed SickFamily's baby and passed her to my dad, Flintstones Grandma, who is a nurse, fetched ice and cooled him off, Guide got stewerdess to bring oxygen. But then, he was really bad. It happened to be that the 3 Dutch families were on our flight and very tall Dutch guy came over (BTW, no one on the plane offered ANY help at all, not even the staff, except when we begged) and asked if we needed anything, his wife is a doctor. She took over, we layed him in the aisle, elevated his feet, she got the most unhelpful air staff in the world to bring the medical equipment, which she deemed left over from WWII, and tried to listen to his lungs, take his pulse.  Eventually, a pilot looking guy came over to ask if he needed to land the plane.

This is the crazy part. As this is happening, our group got together, took care of their child, arranged for an ambulance to meet us at the aircraft at the insistence of our new Doctor friend. And you know what the most unhelpful air staff did? They served lunch. The passed the food trays OVER THE GUYS' BODY to serve the people in the front of the plane. And then, when they tried to pass the FULL TO THE BRIM, STEAMING POT of COFFEE over his limp body, other dad in our group blocked her and stopped her. That was enough. But you know, the Chinese businessmen on the plane, who never offered any help whatsoever, got to eat their airline lunch.

And then, when we landed, they tried to get up. They stayed standing in their seats long enough for our guys to carry SickDad's limp body to the door of the aircraft, because apparently the ambulance guys can't come on board. But as they were passing in the aisle, carrying Sick Dad, the Chinese passengers were filling the Ilse behind them, trying to get off. I stood up on my seat and screamed, at the top of my lungs 'Sit the F*/*/ Down!'. You have never seen 100 Chinese people so stunned in their life. they couldn't move, just long enough for Sick Mom to grab her coat and follow her husband and my dad to the ambulance (yes, super grand-pa accompanied them to the international hospital, with a note from Belgium doctor lady as to what she had done and what she thought he had).

Another crazy part, that ambulance is the airport ambulance, which only took them to the gates of the airport, where they were transfered to another ambulance, but not before they paid the 300 Yuans for the transport form the plane to the airport limits.

Get Travel Insurance people. And don't count on ANYONE to help you. NOONE, except the nice Belgium or Canadian people.

Sick Dad is in the hospital under observation. We sort of knwo what is wrong, but he's not my family, so it's irrelevant to this story. In the mean time, We kept SickBaby for the afternoon, then another family took her for the night. Today is Great Wall Day and we had already booked nannies for all hte kiddies, so that only the adults and big sisters go to the Great Wall (I know, we are heartless people, DO NOT EMAIL me about this). So SickBaby is in good hands until situation is re-evaluated at the end of the day today.

we interrupt this medical emergency to serve you lunch

Remember how I was complaining that Hefei was boring... yeah, well, I'm sorry I ever said anything.... As we were leaving the hotel Friday morning, one of the Dads in our travel group, whom I will refer to as SickDad, started feeling queezy. Gravol was offered, but he didn't want it. One diesel bus ride and an hour wait at an overheated airport later, he really wasn't feeling good, but didn't complain.  Plane takes off, seat belt signs turn off 15 minutes later and SickWife is asking anyone if their Gravol happens to be nearby. Mortimer's Dad stands up to retrieve it from the overhead bin, only to watch SickDad puke his guts out. Then, he passed out. Then he turned first green, they grey, then sort of..... I don't know, convulse or shake, I'm not sure.

We have the BEST travel group ever. My mom grabbed SickFamily's baby and passed her to my dad, Flintstones Grandma, who is a nurse, fetched ice and cooled him off, Guide got stewerdess to bring oxygen. But then, he was really bad. It happened to be that the 3 Dutch families were on our flight and very tall Dutch guy came over (BTW, no one on the plane offered ANY help at all, not even the staff, except when we begged) and asked if we needed anything, his wife is a doctor. She took over, we layed him in the aisle, elevated his feet, she got the most unhelpful air staff in the world to bring the medical equipment, which she deemed left over from WWII, and tried to listen to his lungs, take his pulse.  Eventually, a pilot looking guy came over to ask if he needed to land the plane.

This is the crazy part. As this is happening, our group got together, took care of their child, arranged for an ambulance to meet us at the aircraft at the insistence of our new Doctor friend. And you know what the most unhelpful air staff did? They served lunch. The passed the food trays OVER THE GUYS' BODY to serve the people in the front of the plane. And then, when they tried to pass the FULL TO THE BRIM, STEAMING POT of COFFEE over his limp body, other dad in our group blocked her and stopped her. That was enough. But you know, the Chinese businessmen on the plane, who never offered any help whatsoever, got to eat their airline lunch.

And then, when we landed, they tried to get up. They stayed standing in their seats long enough for our guys to carry SickDad's limp body to the door of the aircraft, because apparently the ambulance guys can't come on board. But as they were passing in the aisle, carrying Sick Dad, the Chinese passengers were filling the Ilse behind them, trying to get off. I stood up on my seat and screamed, at the top of my lungs 'Sit the F*/*/ Down!'. You have never seen 100 Chinese people so stunned in their life. they couldn't move, just long enough for Sick Mom to grab her coat and follow her husband and my dad to the ambulance (yes, super grand-pa accompanied them to the international hospital, with a note from Belgium doctor lady as to what she had done and what she thought he had).

Another crazy part, that ambulance is the airport ambulance, which only took them to the gates of the airport, where they were transfered to another ambulance, but not before they paid the 300 Yuans for the transport form the plane to the airport limits.

Get Travel Insurance people. And don't count on ANYONE to help you. NOONE, except the nice Belgium or Canadian people.

Sick Dad is in the hospital under observation. We sort of knwo what is wrong, but he's not my family, so it's irrelevant to this story. In the mean time, We kept SickBaby for the afternoon, then another family took her for the night. Today is Great Wall Day and we had already booked nannies for all hte kiddies, so that only the adults and big sisters go to the Great Wall (I know, we are heartless people, DO NOT EMAIL me about this). So SickBaby is in good hands until situation is re-evaluated at the end of the day today.

February 01, 2007

smiles all around

Hefei is a small town, the Novotel has small room, and we are a bit fed up of the same thing everyday, on the food front, on the hallway front, on the people front.... everybody has got major cabin fever, except for Sprout!

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she is sprouting quite the personality! Much like mortimer is our skinny hyperactive dog and Lucy is ouf fat, slow, pensive dog, Dumpling and Sprout are the same: Dumpling has energy to burn bt no excess of fat. Sprout thinks about every move before making it, but when she makes up her mind, watch out! And Dumplign could win the award for Drama anyday, her sister, on the other hand, is quite the comedian. Now that her smile is in full swing, she is alays making everyone laugh. She's also an expert at the stacking up, being fully able to pt them back inside one another, in order, thank you very much!

Compared to Nanning, this trip is a bit harder, only because we have had no activities outside of the adoption meetings and the orphanage visit. There are only so many games of running down the hallway you can play before everyone sort of loses their minds.... Also, the first night, they had nice sausages as the grill. The next night, I suspected the same sausages made an appearance in a giant sauerkraut dish. Sure enough, they were back the next day at lunch, cut in half lenghtwise, and finally, last night, in little pieces in a cabbage soup. That was it, we switched over to the other restaurant (it's all very spicy, no problem for us, but the rest of our group wasn't too keen).

today, I must attempt to put it all back in the suitcases, as we head for Beijing tomorrow morning.

January 31, 2007

Poop! And pictures!

We've got poop! Not once, but twice! Yeah Poop!
We went to the orphanage yesterday. This is the only thing I'll say publicly about it: it was very nice to go see. The nanies were beyond thrilled to see her, and we got to see her bed, her friends, the elderly in the back building all came out to say goodbye to her. It was bare and it was very cold.  That is all I'll say, not because there was anything bad at all, but because that is where I draw the line in sharing Sprout's life with you guys, at least on my public blog.

Spekaing of Sprout, she spent 2 hours alone with her grandparents yesterday, while Daddy was on Dumpling nap duty and Mommy left to go shopping with Wilma. I know, we are heartless mothers, you should report us to CPS!!! We bought squeeky shoes and lolly pops and walked at our own frenetic pace, without carrying strollers up and down the pedestrian overpasses.  Wilma and I, we know how to shop in China! (OK, our skills are probably transferable everywhere in the world, but we excercise togeher only in China!!!) (BTW, Hefei is not a good shopping city. The shoes are really ugly and there are barely any cute chinese cotton pajamas, which Wilma and I both love for the girls - there will be LOTS of shopping in Beijing!)

Sprout laughs with everyone but me. With Daddy, with Grandma and Grandpa, with the neighbours across the hall. When I come in, she turns back into a big cuddly ball of dough and just wants to nuzzles and cuddle, which is just fine by me. She also talks a lot with Daddy. None if it inteligable, but she likes to talk to him.
She took a short bath with her big sister yesterday. Dumpling was only too happy to show her how to splash and help clean her incredibly dirty belly button (an outy!!!!)

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and go figure, we came to China and Dumpling managed to meet Mulan... at least she thinks she did! The hostess to the conference taking place on the 3rd floor of the hotel didn't really understand Dumpling's excitement and certainly had no idea why Dumpling asked where her small dragon was and if she wanted to eat an apple!!!!

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January 30, 2007

still no poop

I'm sure you were dying to know....  we are dinner time day two and we have had no poop. I'm not worried, last time it took almost 4 days, but we poop watch is in full swing. I have to say, I can't imagine what cleaning a chubby butt like this is going to be like! I have never seen meat on bones before. Is it too late to swtich their names, because Sprout is definately the shape of a Dumpling, and Dumpling is the definition of Sprout!!!!!

Sprout slept through the night on night one. I'm not sure it will happen again, but hey, one night is a good start!  she like sher dad, but prefers having me in eyesight. She' not crazy about havng her sister squeeze the bejesus out of her, so we are trying to get Dumpling to give her some space. But Dumpling, who is still jetlagged, spent one hour watching her sleep this morning, telling us she's quite hapy with her baby and we can keep her..... so try getting her to give her a bit of space!!!!

Tomorrow, we will visit her orphanage. The kids in our travel group each came from a different orphanage. We made a request to go visit, and ours was the closest. i feel unbeleivably fortunate. I already have an idea of what it looks like, having seen pictures of previous visitors. I am therefor not apprehensie in the least. I'm not sure all the families are coming, seing as it isn't their child's orphanage, but we are going no matter what.

More later!

January 29, 2007

Sisters

I know you don't really care about what I have to say, so for your viewing pleasure:

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Presenting Sprout and Family

Family

Do I really need to add anything to this?

She won't stop eating, she ate more at lunch than Dumpling can eat in an entire day. And she won't stop. I have to stop her, or she'll explode. She cried for 20 minutes, plus if I walk out of her eyesight, but she likes Daddy a lot and walks with him in the lobby. She's weary of Dumpling, but mostely because Dumpling is a tad over affectionate at this point.

Also, she's already stylish, sporting several layers of split pants and some cupcake Robeez, obviously donated by someone who came before us!

January 28, 2007

T-1 hour

it's 8:20 am, our appointment is at 9:30. we are meeting in the lobby at 8:45.  Holy Crap!!!!!!

Dumpling is still jet lagged, waking up at 2 am. Mortimer's Dad did the night shift so I could sleep a little, not much.

KLBs: pics are up on my dad's site and as soon as we get back from picking up Sprout, he promises to let you see the first glimpse before I get to posting myself later today. For those of you who don't know what I'm talking about, sorry, but membership ahs it's priviledges!

mortimer's dad speaks

this must be quite the adventure, because Mortimer's Dad has been compelled to blog, after months on inactivity. for those who know his blog, check it out.

140_4020 We had our first full day of adventure. Dumpling and Pebbles are quite the sight. They insist on traveling while holding had, strollers side by side. Mrs. Flintstone and I dragged the entire travel group to Carrefour, a big multilevel store about 30 min walk away from the hotel. But the walk was quite a sight, for the residents of Hefei. Last time in Nanning, I did notice people looking at us with the kids, but nothing like this. I know far fewer people adopt form Anhui provinc and today, we noticed it. We were gawed at, and the sound of giggles and laughter coming from our 2 older daughters were stopping people dead in their tracks.

January 27, 2007

Dumpling has landed

wow, that was quite the trip!

Let me just say a big public THANK YOU to my husband for the first class tickets, because that was a LONG trip with a 3 3/4 y.o.!!! She was actually an angel: no tantrum, no complaining, no tears, but man, you gotta be on your toes to keep her entertained the ENTIRE time.

We left our house at 5 am on Friday and headed for the airport. We got to our Hotel in Hefei 27 hours later, at 9 pm on Sat local time. During that time, she slept one hour just before lunch, and 2 hours at her body time of 7:30 pm when she would have normally gone to sleep, and finally one hour on the last plane, which was like midnight for her. The rest of the time: iPod, coloring, magnetic paper dolls, and a lot of saying hello to every Chinese person on the plane.

By the time we got to the hotel and got our pajamas out, I was completely shattered. We got about 4 hours of sleep before she woke up again, ready to go for the day. Thankfully, the iPod provided another 90 minutes of sleep for mommy before she DEMANDED that we play with her.

Luckily for all of us, The Flintstones were experiencing much the same in their room next door, so we took over the buffet downstairs and watched our 2 dynamos run around and make complete and total fool of themselves, to the dismay of the few business travelers trying to enjoy their bowl of morning congee!!!

The plan for today is grocery shopping and maybe even a stop at the Carrefour Store to check out the kids clothes. Babies are at 9:30 on Monday morning, still no word on orphanage visit.

Not really many pictures yet, i promise something alter today or tomorrow!

PS: thanks for all the good wishes and prayers. Must have worked, because though he is stil coughing more than ususal, hubs is feeling much, much better and there seems to be nothing to worry about.

January 25, 2007

over and out

almost 11 pm. Everything is done. Dumpling is sleeping.

Husband has a cold and there was brief discussion tonight of whether or not he should come..... He doesn't want to miss this again, so he is coming, but if this turns into something serious for him, we have agreed he would come back before the end of the trip. Not something we want to think about or consider, but I wanted it out in the open before we boarded the plane.  (for the benefit of new readers, we are not overly cautious people, my husband has cytic fibrosis and colds lead to lung infections, which lead to IV treatments, not fun, and most probably not readily available in China)

But it's probably just nerves, stress and fatigue, so he is sleeping and we will keep all appandages crossed. I don't think I'll actually manage to sleep, but I'm going to try. Wake up call is 4 am.

See you in a few days, once we have settled into our hotel, Sunday in China.

January 24, 2007

Behold: the bags!

the Before: (well, sort of the inbetween, after the first trial, before the final pack)

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the After:

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and the inbetween:

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Quick! Name a book!

I want to bring a book to China, because I am crazy and I think I will some time to read. Mostely at 3 am. I need suggestions. Here are the criteria:

  1. not a hard cover
  2. nothingserious or brain involving
  3. chick lit or light novel is fine
  4. interesting mystery ok as well
  5. plot not too thick, since I will be sleep deprived

Here are some book I *WOULD* bring, if I hadn't already read them, to give you ideas: Devil Wears Prada, In Her Shoes, any of the Patricia Cornwell mysteries, The Curious Incident of The Dog in the Night.....

Now GO! Make suggestions! I must purchase this book tomorrow morning.

Edited to add: I have already read both Kathy Reichs and Jennifer Weiner's books, as well as all the Shopaholics & Ben Elton.

stomach churning

OK, so it's 8:45 am and I've already been to the bathroom 4 times this morning.... I guess it's official: I'm nervous and excited!

We leave in 3 days, though really, it's 2 days, because we leave first thing Friday morning. Later today, I will be zipping up the suitcases (I will attempt to take pictures of the ridiculousness that is my ziplock bag obsession) and then.... what I am supposed to do after that? Tomorrow, I have booked a hair appointment. That's right, I'm so high maintenance, I will have my hair done the morning before leaving! My thought process is that my bangs need a major trim, and when you get a good blow-dry, it can last a few days, so I should look half decent until I get off the plane. Afterward, I will look like a sleep-deprived, hairbrush-deprived mom for quite a while!

Also tomorrow, we will be having a family/group dinner with the Flintstones and my brother and MIL at our favorite steak house. We ate there last time before leaving, so we are making it sort of a tradition. and since tomorrow is Thursday, rather than running around the house going crazy, the gals from the store are coming over for one last Grey's Anatomy viewing party before I go.

48 hours!!!!!

PS: the Today show just did a segment on the resurgence of sewing and sewing circles.... The KLB's are SO ahead of their time!!!

January 22, 2007

no overload this time

Seems some of you have been having a good time ribbing me about my lack of projects right now, both in the comments and via email. For the record, I am not opening a new store or moving. I am leaving in 4 days (3 really, since we leave at the crack of dawn) and other than signing a few checks, charging a few batteries and making some luggage tags, I have nothing on my plate.

Well, that's not entirely true. After a bit of encouragement and cajoling on my part, the contractor will be finishing our basement tomorrow (he still has a bit of work to do in the garage), so we need to have our furniture delivered from storage and put back our entertainment center (and hook up all those wires) before we go. In all honesty, it could wait til we get back, but the thought of sinking into that massive couch and watching all the bad shows I Tivod while recovering from jet lag is too appealing to leave it til our return.

so there you have it! I do have a project, so stop bugging me about it!

January 21, 2007

What will we lose?

With only 5 (yikes, 5!!!) nights to go before we leave, and the packing more or less taken care of, I have started small panic attacks.... Let me explain.  My husband, bless his heart, is a darling who is.... loss-prone and forgetful. I love him dearly, but over the last 8 years, I have tried desperately to get him to carry 3 things at all times: his wallet, his keys and his cell phone. Most often, it's the phone that's missing, or he's got it but it's dead or not on. But sometimes, it's his keys, or worst, his wallet.

Famous incidents include the time, pre-marriage, when he and a friend went on a road trip of the Minor League Baseball Parks of the North East (Herb, I know you're jealous!) and he left his wallet at this friend's apartment. But the crossed to border into the US anyways. Without a credit card or a single piece of ID! (obviously, this is pre-911,... The funniest part of this story is that he had a banana, and the border guard went, well, bananas! No ID, no problem, but a banana, no way!)  My personal favorite is the morning we left to go on a cruise and somehow, between the cab at the airport curb and the check-in counter, his wallet went missing. Whether he dropped it, forgot it in the cab or was pick-pocketed (his personal opinion), it was 6 am and it was quite a feat to manage to lose his wallet in the 250 feet between the curb and the counter! We still went on the trip, with a newly issued credit card shipped to our hotel in Miami (thank goodness we were spending a few days in town before leaving), some cash lent to us by a snowbird relative and his passport, which I had kept in MY hands..... Needless to say, he hasn't been allowed to carry either our passports or tickets ever since.

So I am pretty sure that at some point on this trip, something will go missing. My biggest worry, besides paperwork and ID, is Dumpling's beloved blanky. That thing is already being mended regularly, as it is being loved beyond its intended capacity. And we have often forgotten it, usually at grandma's house, or most recently at the Flintstones after our celebratory dinner. We always recover it, on the same day, as it is 100% required for sleep. But I am terrified it will go astray in China. My mom has made a bungee for it, with clips on both ends, and my parents pledge to double check every restaurant before we leave to insure we don't forget it, but still, I worry....

Pretty much all other things we bring are replaceable. Cameras will be uploaded to the laptop every night as backup, extra copies of paperwork will be placed in separate bags, but still, I worry.... h0w do you say "where is the lost and found" in Mandarin?

January 20, 2007

the big part is done

Believe it or not, I got the bulk of the packing done today. I had intended on starting with the girls clothes and leaving it at that for the first day, but I had planned it in my head so much, it took no time at all! 

So I kept going and did my clothes and my husband did his, and wouldn't you know it, we barely used half a suitcase each. More like 1/3 each. In theory, we could fit all the girls stuff in with ours and go with only 2 suitcases, but there is no point. We've got the room, we'll split everything amongst the 3 bags so that if one of them gets lost, we're still covered. Also, once we are completely done, I will double check the weight and them fill up whatever room we've got left with clothes for the orphanage. I have a TON of Dumpling's clothes from the first summer that is 6-12, or 12-18 months, which is never going to fit Sprout, so I would rather pass it on to them, I know they can use it more than anyone around my neck of the woods.

I got Dumpling to help me with the packing by picking out her own clothes ("get two pants" "pick 5 tops" "we need 3 tights"). It doesn't all match, but at least she got to participate.  She also enjoyed the rolling part, and was quite puzzled as to why we were putting everything in ziplock bags! But she loved sitting on them (or mostly body surfing on them) to get the air out!

The less fun part for her was dealing with the old clothes that I had intended for her sister. She was having no part of the hand-me-down situation. Mine! No Sprout!  After a brief parental conference, we elected to pack the big items like coat and sweaters, but to only bring new pants and tops. There will be plenty of them for her to learn to share, but a life-changing trip to China, with a new sibling, is probably not the best time.  Also, we really are guessing at Sprout's size, so what's the point. We brought only stretchy stuff and we will buy her whatever she needs when we are there.  I also made sure Dumpling's stuff included plenty of new items, including some matching tops to her sister's.

What I have left to do is to deal with the meds and the food. Everything is there in the room, but I have to get rid of boxes, split up cereal between the bags, etc.  And then, we just have to charge all the cameras and pack the wires and chargers, but we are done. The clothes was worrying me the most, but that is now done and out of the way. Of course, I reserve the right to completely change my  mind and start over....

January 19, 2007

one week

One Week.

a) a good song by BNL

b) the amount of time left before we leave for China

c) all of the above

This time next week, we'll be over the Pacific somewhere.... I'm not packed (though I mostely know what I'm taking, it's only a question of weight), I still have to write everything down for Super Manager D who is taking over my life while I am gone (she will run the stores, live at my house and drive my car), reclaim my basement, which is almost finished....

So what am I doing to be productive? I'm lying on the couch watching Super Sweet 16....

January 15, 2007

meet the Flinstones

I have mentioned a couple of times that we are going back to China with a family we met on our first trip. Our meeting was quite special. We are very much alike. They are also well traveled, work for themselves (though he is a genius and much, much more successful!!!) and we had an absolute ball shopping and exploring on our first trip.

So after a few brief discussions, we sent our files together and embarked on our quest for #2s together. It will be hard for me to blog about my trip without mentioning them, as we are both traveling with our oldest daughters and one set of grandparents (both grandmothers have the same first name!!!)  So I approached them yesterday and asked them how I should refer to them on my blog. I want to respect their privacy, but I want to be able to talk about our adventures without needing to censor all of my stories.  here is what they came up with: Fred, Wilma, Pebbles and BamBam!!!! I just love it! (BamBam will be a girl for this purpose)

As soon as we get a group shot, I will introduce them formally, but at least, when they come up over the packing stage, I no longer have to type "my friend who is traveling with me" or "the other family we are going with"

We met the rest of our travel group. It ranges greatly from someone who's never been on a plane to a couple going for their 4th child!   We are 5 families going to Anhui, with 4 going to another place and 1 more meeting up with us the second week in Beijing.

January 14, 2007

Bags: a creative interpretation

while the KLBs are all busy crafting away and making bags, I spent the day rolling snow suits and polar fleece jackets into plastic pouches and using the Food Saver to take the air out and pack them up all tiny... does that count? it's sort of a bag......

Operation packing has officially begun. I have also added a Flickr link to my page. There are no public pictures right now, but I will put them there while in China. I have also secured the help of guest posters/bloggers while I am away.... If I am unable to reach Typepad during my trip, the lovely Deanna and her husband (and mine, sort of) will be posting on my behalf. So we are covered and you can be assured my adventures will be available!

I have also washed Sprout's new clothes and transfered several more DVDs to the iPod.....  12 days and counting!

PS: It starts to air tomorrow. I should be on this Tuesday and then Thursday of next week...  it will also be available online.

January 13, 2007

cross border adventure

today, we packed up Dumpling and a couple of DVDs and headed south to the wonderful world of the Plattsburg Mall, in Plattsburg NY. Not the most glamerous destination, and still 8 hours north of where we really wanted to be (New Jersey, where a bunch of KLBs are currenlyt gathering). We made this trip with a specific purpose in mind: cans of concentrated apple juice, not frozen.  This is not available where we live. So we drove 1 hour there, 1 hour back, to purchase said apple juice concentrate so that my husband would have something to drink while in China. You see, he drinks nothing but apple juice and whole  milk. No soda, no water, NEVER anything hot, so I was a tad worried about what he would drink for 2 weeks in China. I know they have apple juice there, but I just needed to know we would have some available at ALL TIMES. This way, we can make it in the big water bottles and he can take it with him everywhere (don't worry, I'm not packing ketchup!!!!)

The other thing we were trying to buy was yoga/legging type pants for the girls (plural!!!)
Despite what Mrs. Figby's poor opinion of me on the matter, I am a big fan of yoga pants, in the right places, like home, grocery store, or while travelling to China. They are comfortable, they wash and dry overnight in the bathroom sink, and paired with a nice long sweater or cute tunic, you can wear them to dinner and look presentable.  But finding the equivalent for the girls was proving to be hard. They were unavailable anywhere here in the middle of winter, or were made of awful nylon that I would never wear on my own skin, let alone my kids'.  But we found what we were looking for at the Old Navy in Plattsburg. The best part? They were marked down to $1.80   Less than $2 a pair!!!! I couldn't buy a roll of elastic for that price! So we stocked up, and anything that doesn't fit Sprout will be donated to the orphange, because seriously, 2$ pants!!!!!

January 10, 2007

Sleepless in....

I knew it was going to happen, it was just a matter of when. I woke up at 4:05 am, unable to go back to sleep. I tried, I tossed and turned, then I gave up and watched TV. I have had bouts of insomnia my entire adult life, usually in periods of stress. So when the call for TAs came, I knew it would hit sooner or later. It's just not particularly convenient right now. I need to do so many things, I kind of need to be well rested. I think that part of the problem is that because I am not working, I just don't have enough on my plate right now.

As Pink Devora pointed out in the comments yesterday, this would be the right time for me to open a new store or start looking for a house. Because I thrive under pressure, juggling a dozen balls at once. And right now, I've got very little to worry about.  We hired a new girl, my Super-fantastic-star manager is taking over all buying duties and will even move into our house while we are gone, the contractor is finally gaining momentum is has turned the rest of the house upside down to fix all the plastering issues and repaint all the common areas....  Our amazing babysitter E did email me to tell me she is moving back to the States, next Monday, so I must find a new part time babysitter..... Oh, and pack!   

Wow, I feel better already!

January 08, 2007

We're good to go!

We interrupt the MacGyver portion of this blog to announce that:

*WE* *GOT* *OUR* *TA*!!!!!!!!!!!!

The agency is working on the travel plans as we speak, but we are tentatively leaving on the 26th of January, which is 18 days from now......  What am I doing typing this? I should be packing!!!!!

January 05, 2007

nervous and edgy

Earlier this week, I was on a total high. KLBs got their referrals, and we were anticipate TAs, thanks to the early request from our agency to apply for our visas.

But it's now the end of the week, and there are no TAs. Now, I'm starting to freak out. Our agency has made it clear that we cannot be in China during Chinese New Year. We must go and come back before it starts, or leave afterwards. They also need about 2 weeks between getting the TAs and getting us out the door, for a total of 4 weeks from TS to return home. So the ABSOLUTE latest we can leave is Feb 2nd, though realistically, it's Jan 27th.  At this point, we still have a bit of wiggle room with the TAs next week.

But the big problem is this. Our batch included people with referrals from 3 provinces, Anhui, Guangong and Jianxi. the Guangong people have to spend 2 weeks in the province, for a total trip of 3 weeks. At this point, we have not been told whether they are going to split us up completely, or, if like during our first trip, the group will leave together, go to their respective provinces and meet up again in Beijing for the embassy paper work. If this is the case, then you see where the problem arises. Because there isn't that much time left for them to spend 3 weeks there....

So now I don't know what is going to happen. They are not saying anything. And I'm worried. Because the prospect of waiting til after Chinese New Year to go get our daughter is sickening. I'm sick to my stomach, literally.

January 03, 2007

80G of Kiddy entertainment

New category: Travels to China. I still haven't decided if I will blog my trip here or on a separate blog. I don't remember, can you access typepad from China? If not, I'm sure I can send my missives to a fellow KLB and have them post them for me.....

So while I am still at the Kibbutz of the North, resting, relaxing and vegging, I did do some productive Sprout related things. First, we took out Dumpling's old tiny toddler bed and made a little corner in our bedroom for Sprout. She will not be getting a room of her own, as our upstairs only has 2 bedrooms and Dumpling is still way too young to be in the basement, so for the near future, Sprout will bunk in our room on weekends and then they will share the other room until they are old enough to go downstairs.

*Note: I'm still not sure how much time we'll be able to spend here this winter. I know how important stability and routines are to newly adopted children, so we'll play it by ear. On the one hand, I own to Dumpling to keep up her own routines, and that includes skiing on Sundays, but we might have to do the drive up in the morning if Sprout doesn't take well to weekends at the other house....

And then, I started *packing* for Dumpling: I am loading up all 80G of my video ipod (minus the pathetic 2.5 G of music I already have loaded, a good 50% of which is kids stuff) with all of Dumpling's favorite DVDs. I bought a good software that copies the DVD and converts it in the right format in one step (Cucusoft, if you must know) and now, I spend my evenings skimming through every DVD we usually carry in our little CD carrier and I'm loading up the ipod for China. She doesn't seem to mind the size of the screen, and while she is an expert with the computer mouse, until she gets the handle of the click wheel we can easily put it in the lock position.

The way I figure, the ipod battery will last longer on the plane than most portable DVD players, and it's so easy to stick it in a pocket and bring it on the bus when we go on outings. plus we can use the music to encourage naps.....  If I have any time left before we leave, I might go buy something like The Office and convert a season for myself to that I will have something to do in the hours between 2 and 4 am, which I remember were rather boring when I was awake and the baby was actually sleeping...

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